Well all I can say is I wish I had found this wesite before I got a loan to buy my 2002 Odyssey in July of this year.
Yup I too have all the same problems with my tranny. Started 2 weeks ago with only 44000 miles on the van.
Brought it to the dealer on Tuesday 9/26 and they were able to get it to slip for them today. Got the call about an hour ago telling me I needed a new tranny. So, here I am waiting to hear back from the dealer to see if Honda will pay anything towards the replacement tranny. I am the 3rd owner of this van this the first owner only had it about a month. The second owner a 80 year old man had owned it since. This guy was right on time with all the maintence stuff. I figured I was buying a car to last me the next 10 years....
Well, we'll see how things turn out......
Theresa
9/28 got a call from the dealer they have gotten Honda to replace the tranny and the computer control. I have to pay for the labor which will be $875, I feel like I can't complain. He says the control MUST be replaced with the tranny as otherwise your tranny will just burn out again.